Yay! So Josh finally got a job! He got a call from Manpower last week (whom he contacted a couple of months ago and never heard anything from) and they told him about a job for Xerox. Well, he went in for the interview today and the lady liked him right off the bat and told him he'd be a perfect fit! His official title is "account specialist" and basically he'll take on different projects for a client and do image retouching, etc.. and do test prints and stuff like that and then send it to the company so they can see if they like the designs (?) I'm not totally sure on the details but that's the gist of it. The lLady who interviewed him said she knows he wants to move up eventually blah blah and this is a good starting point for someone just entering the field.
More good news came last week as well from Kohler. The person he spoke with from the ceramics department called Mark and told him they liked Josh a lot and he should apply to a job online and get in the system and then she will bypass the HR department so he can get in for another interview quickly! And we just happened to find a job that is open at the Wisconsin location that he is qualified for. He still has an upcoming meeting with the person who is in charge of the graphic design department as well so there is ANOTHER possible opportunity (thanks to Mahoney!)
This is such awesome news for us because not only does he have a potential opportunity with Kohler but he now has a job so we don't have to worry about that anymore! Also, he contacted all of his teachers at MATC and they've all agreed to let him come in at random times when he's available to turn in last assignments and projects so his classes won't interfere with his work schedule! I guess sometimes when you are least expecting it, good things will come. It feels so good to FINALLY have something positive happen for us. I'm actually feeling very cautious about things these days just because I know how quickly things can turn bad, but we went and had a little celebratory dinner and stuff tonight so that was nice. Hopefully things will slowly continue to move in the right direction for us. I was really worried about Josh when Zach passed away becasue he lost his focus on school and finding a job and basically everything (to be expected of course) but he really pulled it together in spite of all he's been through and worked even harder and now it is starting to pay off! Baby steps.... :)
Pandora's Box: A Blog for Artists
Monday, April 21, 2008
Thursday, April 17, 2008
It's On!
Finally, today i had my last appointment! AND I am finally dilated to 2cm and effaced 50%. So things are happening and I'm glad to see that my sporadic contractions are doing something. I had an ultrasound yesterday and to everyone's surprise the technician estimated the baby's weight to only be at about 7lbs 6oz! However, when I saw my actual doctor today, she said she doesn't trust that because just by the look and measurement of my belly, the baby is bigger than that. Plus, she said she had a patient once who had an ultrasound the same as mine and the baby was actually 10lbs! So, I guess things like that can happen. Based on the result of the ultrasound I could technically just wait until my due date, but I chose to keep the induction date because my instinct tells me the weight estimate is wrong and my doctor agrees that he's bigger and she's had a lot of experience with this!
She also said I could very possibly go into labor before Wednesday! So in 5 1/2 days or less, there will be a baby here! I'm super excited and nervous at the same time. Oh, and I forgot to mention how cool it was to see the ultrasound yesterday! She said he has hair, and sure enough you could see the light fuzz around his head on the ultrasound! Also, we saw his cute little face and he looks just like Ethan! He has HUGE cheeks and a little pointy chin just like Ethan did when he was born. So that was very cool. Too bad it wasn't the 4D ultrasound but I guess it's nice to leave some things to be a surprise. We are just so anxious to meet this little guy! Wish me luck!!!
She also said I could very possibly go into labor before Wednesday! So in 5 1/2 days or less, there will be a baby here! I'm super excited and nervous at the same time. Oh, and I forgot to mention how cool it was to see the ultrasound yesterday! She said he has hair, and sure enough you could see the light fuzz around his head on the ultrasound! Also, we saw his cute little face and he looks just like Ethan! He has HUGE cheeks and a little pointy chin just like Ethan did when he was born. So that was very cool. Too bad it wasn't the 4D ultrasound but I guess it's nice to leave some things to be a surprise. We are just so anxious to meet this little guy! Wish me luck!!!
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Birthday Recap
So my crappy bday turned out to be nice, as we decided to celebrate on Saturday since we were too busy with school and work during the week. Also, Josh's parents came up for the weekend. We had grilled chicken and steaks, with salad and a half and half plain cheesecake/chocolate chip cheesecake for my birthday cake! It was really yummy AND Josh did all the cooking and prepping. With the weather being so beautiful, we went to the park and fed the geese and stuff, and it turned out to be a nice low-key birthday celebration.
Sunday was also a beautiful day and Josh's parents left early so Josh, Ethan, and I went back to the park to feed the geese and we ended up taking a short hike through one of the trails to a really pretty waterfall. We also had another cookout, this time with my parents at their house. Josh's parents drove Zach's car up here and took the truck back, so Josh worked on cleaning the inside and outside of the car for a good part of the day. It's nice that we'll have two cars that will fit both of the kids and also that Josh gets to drive Zach's car and take care of instead of his parents selling it.
Busy Summer!
Wow! I just finished adding some things to my calendar and I can't believe that almost every weekend is full already! Actually, the craziness starts in May with Mother's Day, my cousin's wedding, my niece's birthday party and my mom's bday. Oh, and our 5 year anniversary at the end of the month! In June we have Chelsea's shower and bachelorette party, Father's Day, and Jack Johnson concert. July is the least busy month so far with just one weekend booked up for a fishing trip with my entire family and also the fourth of July (which is on a Friday this year!). August will be crazy busy with the frisbee golf camping/outing, Chelsea's wedding extravaganza weekend!, and Kim and Nic's anniversary party! Whew! PLUS, all of the other random outings, parties, and cookouts that are planned spontaneously. I'm glad it's a busy summer but I don't want it to go too fast!
So my crappy bday turned out to be nice, as we decided to celebrate on Saturday since we were too busy with school and work during the week. Also, Josh's parents came up for the weekend. We had grilled chicken and steaks, with salad and a half and half plain cheesecake/chocolate chip cheesecake for my birthday cake! It was really yummy AND Josh did all the cooking and prepping. With the weather being so beautiful, we went to the park and fed the geese and stuff, and it turned out to be a nice low-key birthday celebration.
Sunday was also a beautiful day and Josh's parents left early so Josh, Ethan, and I went back to the park to feed the geese and we ended up taking a short hike through one of the trails to a really pretty waterfall. We also had another cookout, this time with my parents at their house. Josh's parents drove Zach's car up here and took the truck back, so Josh worked on cleaning the inside and outside of the car for a good part of the day. It's nice that we'll have two cars that will fit both of the kids and also that Josh gets to drive Zach's car and take care of instead of his parents selling it.
Busy Summer!
Wow! I just finished adding some things to my calendar and I can't believe that almost every weekend is full already! Actually, the craziness starts in May with Mother's Day, my cousin's wedding, my niece's birthday party and my mom's bday. Oh, and our 5 year anniversary at the end of the month! In June we have Chelsea's shower and bachelorette party, Father's Day, and Jack Johnson concert. July is the least busy month so far with just one weekend booked up for a fishing trip with my entire family and also the fourth of July (which is on a Friday this year!). August will be crazy busy with the frisbee golf camping/outing, Chelsea's wedding extravaganza weekend!, and Kim and Nic's anniversary party! Whew! PLUS, all of the other random outings, parties, and cookouts that are planned spontaneously. I'm glad it's a busy summer but I don't want it to go too fast!
Friday, April 4, 2008
Baby Update
I had another appointment yesterday that was the first of 3 internal exams. It's about as fun as it sounds but at least I found out the baby is head down, so that is good news! I am not dilated or effaced yet, which I learned has no bearing on when the baby will be born. Some women walk around for days and weeks dilating and others don't dilate at all until the day the baby is born! I also found out that my induction will be at 7:30am on the 23rd. My doctor told me I will be hooked up to an IV which will slowly release the pitosin and start mild contractions. Once my water breaks (or is broken for me) I will start to have intense contractions. At 4cm dilated I can have an epidural which I'm definitely doing as I did with Ethan!
Also, yesterday was my last day at work! I had told them I would try to make it until the 18th, but yesterday morning I got a migraine just as I got to work and it just hit me that it was getting to be too much with the drive downton and back everyday. And of course all of the other stressful things I have to deal with in a normal work day. Once I had made the decision, it felt like a huge weight had been lifted of my shoulders, knowing that I can enjoy the last few weeks (or days) of this pregnancy. I'm proud of myself for making it this far and am very grateful for having a healthy and uneventful pregnancy that allowed me to be able to work full-time for this long. As this pregnancy draws to a close, I can't help but think how different it was than with Ethan! I was so stressed out throughout my whole pregnancy with him, and I'm still anxious but I feel like I know hat to expect this time.
Random Pondering Thoughts...
So we went to Mark and Shan's today for an "opening day" party to watch the game and stuff. Eric and Lisa brought their 3 month old Caleb and everyone got to talking about marriage and kids. As everyone went around and said their opinions on the what they want to do and what is right, I got to thinking about how there really is no one right way. For instance, one to some people, it is important to have a lot of kids and create a family above all else. For others, it is about pursuing a career and having a nice home, etc... and not so much about having a child. It really made me realize that everyone has some aspect of their life that they haven't figured out yet. For instance, Josh and I have a great family life and marriage and another child on the way, yet we haven't conquered having a career or buying a home, etc...We just seem to slide by somehow in that way, even though it's something that is really important to us. On the other hand, there are other people who have their careers and money in order and have a house but can't seem to agree on children or have been trying to have a child and can't. It seems that there is always something out of reach for all of us that we care deeply about but haven't quite gotten there yet. As I listened to everyone debate about marriage and children and jobs, I really realized that there is no one right way. And no person is better over the other for what they have or do not have. Eventually, we'll all get there. Also, it is better to admit to yourself that maybe you don't want children and want to focus on other things rather than having a kid and THEN realizing you didn't want to be a parent! Some people want to have kids early and others would rather focus on careers while they are young and have kids later. I used to be adamant about having children early, but I don't really think one way is better over the other. And no matter which path in life is right for you, there will be the same amount of challenges either way. After all, it's usually when you think you've got it all figured at that things fall apart! Like Josh's mom always tells us, it may seem like things are difficult now, but enjoy the ride because it's when you think you have all that you want in terms of financial stability and a good job, etc... is when things get boring and monotonous. I guess I've had this on my mind because of our situation as I am about to have the baby and Josh is still looking for a job! I know it will be a challenge but I know we won't fail, and we've been through A LOT of difficult times so we know what we are in for! Although I he can get a "job" I REALLY hope this Kohler thing works out next week; keep you fingers crossed!
Whew! Ok that was a lot, but I have a lot on my mind these days!
Also, yesterday was my last day at work! I had told them I would try to make it until the 18th, but yesterday morning I got a migraine just as I got to work and it just hit me that it was getting to be too much with the drive downton and back everyday. And of course all of the other stressful things I have to deal with in a normal work day. Once I had made the decision, it felt like a huge weight had been lifted of my shoulders, knowing that I can enjoy the last few weeks (or days) of this pregnancy. I'm proud of myself for making it this far and am very grateful for having a healthy and uneventful pregnancy that allowed me to be able to work full-time for this long. As this pregnancy draws to a close, I can't help but think how different it was than with Ethan! I was so stressed out throughout my whole pregnancy with him, and I'm still anxious but I feel like I know hat to expect this time.
Random Pondering Thoughts...
So we went to Mark and Shan's today for an "opening day" party to watch the game and stuff. Eric and Lisa brought their 3 month old Caleb and everyone got to talking about marriage and kids. As everyone went around and said their opinions on the what they want to do and what is right, I got to thinking about how there really is no one right way. For instance, one to some people, it is important to have a lot of kids and create a family above all else. For others, it is about pursuing a career and having a nice home, etc... and not so much about having a child. It really made me realize that everyone has some aspect of their life that they haven't figured out yet. For instance, Josh and I have a great family life and marriage and another child on the way, yet we haven't conquered having a career or buying a home, etc...We just seem to slide by somehow in that way, even though it's something that is really important to us. On the other hand, there are other people who have their careers and money in order and have a house but can't seem to agree on children or have been trying to have a child and can't. It seems that there is always something out of reach for all of us that we care deeply about but haven't quite gotten there yet. As I listened to everyone debate about marriage and children and jobs, I really realized that there is no one right way. And no person is better over the other for what they have or do not have. Eventually, we'll all get there. Also, it is better to admit to yourself that maybe you don't want children and want to focus on other things rather than having a kid and THEN realizing you didn't want to be a parent! Some people want to have kids early and others would rather focus on careers while they are young and have kids later. I used to be adamant about having children early, but I don't really think one way is better over the other. And no matter which path in life is right for you, there will be the same amount of challenges either way. After all, it's usually when you think you've got it all figured at that things fall apart! Like Josh's mom always tells us, it may seem like things are difficult now, but enjoy the ride because it's when you think you have all that you want in terms of financial stability and a good job, etc... is when things get boring and monotonous. I guess I've had this on my mind because of our situation as I am about to have the baby and Josh is still looking for a job! I know it will be a challenge but I know we won't fail, and we've been through A LOT of difficult times so we know what we are in for! Although I he can get a "job" I REALLY hope this Kohler thing works out next week; keep you fingers crossed!
Whew! Ok that was a lot, but I have a lot on my mind these days!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Incoherent Ramblings?
Baby Brain
Do I make sense? When I write or talk, do people understand what I am saying?! Okay, I've read in my pregnacy "bible" a million times that, especially in the ninth month, women can become really forgetfull and have a hard time understanding things and concentrating, AKA "baby brain" or "pregnancy brain". Ok, it happened a little with Ethan, but NOTHING like this time. I just got off the phone with a lady at work and I seriously could not undestand what she was trying to ask me and I felt like a total idiot trying to pull something out of my ass that should have been a relatively easy question to answer! And this has happened to me a bunch of times recently where I look like a total moron because I cannot understand what people are trying to say!
Birthday Blues
This birthday is really shitty. Not only am I huge and pregnant and tired, but Josh has school all day! Poo. My mom is taking me and Ethan out to dinner tonight so hopefully it will end up being a nice time. I've pretty much decided that birthdays suck after 25 anyways, but this one is especially crappy!
Labor Scare!
Okay, not really that dramatic, but yesterday and the night before I felt like CRAP and I was having a few contractions. I may have already had some Braxton Hicks contractions but these were like almost real, with the back pain and everything. Then I was feeling really lethargic and weak and was getting some crazy hot flashes. I actually stayed home from work "just in case". The baby was flip floping around all crazy and I thought something was up,but all is ok now. I'm SO looking forward to my appointment tomorrow, because from now on I go once a week and they do internal exams to see how far along things are. I am excited to see if things are "happening"! This ninth month just hit me like o ton of bricks. All of the sudden I am super emotional and my anxiety level has sky rocketed. I think it was better the first time, because i didn't know what to expect. Although, I just read a very good article regarding pregnancy and anxiety. It was all about how we are exposed to way too much information about pregnancy and all of the things that can go wrong. This includes all of the books, articles, and reality TV shows out there (have you ever watched Discovery Health? Don't when you are pregnant!) In reality, the chances of complications with the mother and/or baby are miniscule but they appear so overblown because of all we are exposed to in the media. For those of you that have not had a baby yet, my biggest piece of advice is get the pregnancy "bible" (What to Expect When You're Expecting") because it really is informative yet reassuring and of course you should be educated. Also, take childbirth classes, it really helps first timers! But try not to read too many books, parenting magazines, or watch crazy shows like Discovery Health and all that becasue it will freak you out and you will not enjoy your pregnancy.
The End....
Anyways, I just needed to vent today (my crappy birthday) but i will be posting again tomorrow after my appointment and stuff. I'd vent to Josh, but I think he is scared of me right now! I either end up freaking out and yelling at him or crying hysterically, soI decided to give him a break!
Do I make sense? When I write or talk, do people understand what I am saying?! Okay, I've read in my pregnacy "bible" a million times that, especially in the ninth month, women can become really forgetfull and have a hard time understanding things and concentrating, AKA "baby brain" or "pregnancy brain". Ok, it happened a little with Ethan, but NOTHING like this time. I just got off the phone with a lady at work and I seriously could not undestand what she was trying to ask me and I felt like a total idiot trying to pull something out of my ass that should have been a relatively easy question to answer! And this has happened to me a bunch of times recently where I look like a total moron because I cannot understand what people are trying to say!
Birthday Blues
This birthday is really shitty. Not only am I huge and pregnant and tired, but Josh has school all day! Poo. My mom is taking me and Ethan out to dinner tonight so hopefully it will end up being a nice time. I've pretty much decided that birthdays suck after 25 anyways, but this one is especially crappy!
Labor Scare!
Okay, not really that dramatic, but yesterday and the night before I felt like CRAP and I was having a few contractions. I may have already had some Braxton Hicks contractions but these were like almost real, with the back pain and everything. Then I was feeling really lethargic and weak and was getting some crazy hot flashes. I actually stayed home from work "just in case". The baby was flip floping around all crazy and I thought something was up,but all is ok now. I'm SO looking forward to my appointment tomorrow, because from now on I go once a week and they do internal exams to see how far along things are. I am excited to see if things are "happening"! This ninth month just hit me like o ton of bricks. All of the sudden I am super emotional and my anxiety level has sky rocketed. I think it was better the first time, because i didn't know what to expect. Although, I just read a very good article regarding pregnancy and anxiety. It was all about how we are exposed to way too much information about pregnancy and all of the things that can go wrong. This includes all of the books, articles, and reality TV shows out there (have you ever watched Discovery Health? Don't when you are pregnant!) In reality, the chances of complications with the mother and/or baby are miniscule but they appear so overblown because of all we are exposed to in the media. For those of you that have not had a baby yet, my biggest piece of advice is get the pregnancy "bible" (What to Expect When You're Expecting") because it really is informative yet reassuring and of course you should be educated. Also, take childbirth classes, it really helps first timers! But try not to read too many books, parenting magazines, or watch crazy shows like Discovery Health and all that becasue it will freak you out and you will not enjoy your pregnancy.
The End....
Anyways, I just needed to vent today (my crappy birthday) but i will be posting again tomorrow after my appointment and stuff. I'd vent to Josh, but I think he is scared of me right now! I either end up freaking out and yelling at him or crying hysterically, soI decided to give him a break!
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